They say February is the season for love … and we’re celebrating by giving you a glimpse of five Illinois farm couples throughout the week! These couples practice their love for each other and the land every day on their farms. Get to know them and the work they love to do!
Jim and Nancy Rapp were “re-rapped” (reunited in marriage) on Sept 16th 2012. Their story actually began over 35 years ago when they met at a small restaurant where Nancy was working while she was going to school to earn a nursing degree and Jim was a young, eager farmer. They fell in love and were married June 3, 1978.
They were very busy for the next several years raising 3 children, a daughter, Amy and two sons, Nick and Ben. Sadly, the marriage ended after 18 years. Jim and Nancy always maintained a good relationship by being together with the children for all significant events and holidays.
In 2012 the communication between Jim and Nancy became more frequent with Jim making more phone calls “just to talk.” During one of those phone calls, Jim suddenly invited Nancy to join him in Portland, OR in July for a little vacation while he was attending an ag meeting. She accepted the invitation. While in Portland, Jim and Nancy enjoyed the time they shared while dining, shopping and sight-seeing together. After several days, Nancy confronted Jim by asking him “what is going on?” They were having a wonderful time together. He had been very thoughtful, kind and generous. Jim responded by saying that he just wanted to be with her. Of course, that just brought Nancy to tears and they hugged each other. That was when their relationship changed and they reconnected by daily phone calls after their trip.
In September, Nancy returned to Illinois to enjoy the Homestead Festival in Princeton with family and friends. On the first evening in town, Jim and Nancy got together, when Jim popped the big question – “Would you marry me again?” – and Nancy replied, “Of course I will.” They both decided to keep their relationship a secret until they could tell the whole family when they were all together during the Festival weekend. They were really going to shock them by telling them that they were planning on tying the knot again.
To surprise the family, Nancy planned to get the children and grandchildren together for family pictures. When Jim walked in for the family pictures, Nancy announced that she wanted Jim to be in the picture – because he was in the picture again. Everyone had a confused look on their face until Jim walked over to Nancy and presented her with a beautiful engagement ring. The room exploded with happy tears, shouts of joy and many hugs.
The wedding was planned for one week later at the family home with a very happy family present. Two months later Jim and Nancy celebrated their happy reunion with their family and friends for a “Re-Rapped Celebration. The celebration was a time for Jim and Nancy to show their appreciation to all their family and friends for their love, caring and support of their reunion.
Nick and Ben have joined their father in the farming operation and now their family is a true “farm family.”
The Lord truly works in mysterious ways and in His own time.
This wonderful story of love submitted by Nancy Rapp. THANK YOU NANCY!